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Well, I couldn’t sit still so I set off to Vancouver, BC, Canada the last day of July to spend some time with my amazing great aunt. It’s been great being in a new place, though it’s still famililar since I’ve been coming to Vancouver since I was a child to visit my family. I was in need of a new place but realize my memory does amazing things once I return to a city I’ve been before. Five years have passed since I was last here but yet it all feels so familiar. Why?

 

I’m slowly realizing my need for newness and discovery will likely always be a part of me. I was on the go for so long, never ever settling for more than 2 weeks while traveling in Africa (except for my 6 week stay in Moshi, TZ) so I have a need to always be on the go. I enjoy being in one place but it also breeds restlessness and the desire to be on the go. It’s a stange time. The enjoyment of the familiar because it’s comfortable but too much comfort creates the need for something different.  I’m not too sure if there is a remedy but I imagine I’ll just have to press on or try to ignore the desire. In the end, nothing really suffices. I want newness but don’t always have the energy to “discover.”  I really need to just decompress, relax and enjoy.

 

Vancouver is a beautiful, open-minded, friendly city with plenty of cafe’s, hip restaurants, music and likely a good night scene (surprisingly, I haven’t checked it out). A wonderful city skyline with plenty of high rise apartment builidings with the backdrop of the bay and lush forest. It’s a dream for any outdoor enthuisast.

 

My only concern is the rain, which is why everything is so lush and green. My first few days greeted me with gloomy skies and a nice drizzle to remind me sunny skies are something to be  apprecieated.

 

 I’ve been amazed by my great aunt who lives on her own, goes to the gym twice a week, takes the bus to most of her outings, and is up to date with the concerns of the world and the environment. She’s concerned about global warming and wants to do her part as best she can. Most elderly people I talk to act as if it’s all unimportant because it’s too late anyway to make any change. Truth is, we don’t really know but why continue to do what we know harms the Earth? Why wouldn’t we try to make lots of change? It can only help. I love her enthusiam she can do her part and make a difference. To the young and old, let this be a welcome message! She’s self reliant and a strong woman making me realize it may not be a coincidence where I get my independence and strong character from. It’s in the family.   I feel priviledged to spend time with her and hear everything she has to say.

Slowly

I’ve been back home for over 2 weeks now and I find myself staying home a lot. I do get out of the house quite a bit but when I’m home, I stay indoors. Before I left South Africa I kept thinking I’d enjoy relaxing and reading by the community pool or take walks to the nearby park to write, read, be online but I haven’t ventured to either yet. It’s strange. I’ve been a way from home for so long, so now I must be subconsciously catching up. I realize how much I do enjoy being home, being in one place, my space. It’s just what I need right now!

As much as I love traveling and spending time with friends, I do enjoy being around my parents and brother and spending as much time with them as I can. Of course, almost all the friends I used to hang out with have taken off on their own adventures so am left to create new friendships. I don’t mind  It may be a good thing for me to just be with me. Adjust. Acclimate. Transition.

Some days I get things off my “to do list” done and others just feel like nothing gets done or a “do nothing” day. I try to just go with it. I realize in the US how much we thrive (or do we?) on trying to accomplish too much everyday and if we can’t check the 13 things off our list, we somehow have failed for the day. This is quite silly thinking. There’s always tomorrow to get something done. I’m remembering what I learned on my journey and try to take it one day at a time. Enjoy the moments. Enjoy relaxing. Enjoy doing nothing. It takes getting used to as our society doesn’t really advocate or practice the “do nothing philosophy.”

I don’t have a job and currently am not looking. I told myself I’d have a month off before beginning the search. I know the day will come when I’ll go from enjoying my do nothing days to wanting a bit more structure, more of a plan because I know living at home is only temporary!  I don’t know how long I’ll stay but hopefully no longer than 6 months. Luckily I do get on with my parents but I am ready for my own place.

Hello Hello

Ok… So now that I’ve been home 7 days I’m sorting most of my belongings and my room is looking worse and worse by the day. Major explosion happened in my room without my consent since I’ve returned.

My big rucksack didn’t end up on the baggage carousel when I landed 18 hrs later in New York from Joburg where I patiently waited for a good 45 minutes. I, with only a few others, had to file a report for missing baggage. Airlines have “lost” my bags before so I wasn’t too worried, including the last time I flew South African Airways! Unfortunately, this time around it took them 7 full days instead of the typical one or two days to bring my glorious maroon bag back to me. How could it have survived so many minibus, car and two airplane rides and then get lost in transit for my 18 hr flight? Or maybe 18 hrs explains everything?

When I called the unhelpful baggage claim line, to ask if she knew where my bag was traveling without me, she had no idea. You’d think, one would try to sound as if they had some clue or sympathy to people who are always calling inquiring about their missing bags- courtesy of airline personel.  Then, she said, oh, it was in Joburg.  “Excuse me,” I’m thinking, “it chilled in Joburg for 7 days.” Who  knows where my bag was while I dove off the deep end in NY. When my bag and I rejoined, I was ecstatic happy to have a few items that just couldn’t be replaced ( a few african tees, shells and beads) but then I realized my brand new toiletry bag shipped from alaska by my wonderful travel buddy was missing. It’s just materials, I know but did someone really have to take it out? Or did they just forget to put it back when identifying my bag?

I submitted a claim to SA airways saying my toiletry bag, its contents, a few beaded keychains and my pocket knife were missing!  I sent the claim yesterday evening. While trying to organize my room by starting small I decided to keep my electronic gadgets(cell phone, camera battery and IPOD charger, adaptors, sim cards and pocket knife) all in one spot, just as I did while on the road. Guess where I found my Pocket knife. YUP, it was there the whole time.

The strangest thing about my pocket knife is when I flew from Livingstone, Zambia to Joburg, South Africa, I made sure to put my pocket knife in a sock into my checked bag and I don’t remember removing my pocket knife again. Or did I? I vaguely remember someone asking me if I had a knife but that was at someone’s home so they would have had knifes in their kitchen drawer. It’s crazy when you can’t remember a sequence. I do remember thinking I my  pocket knife was already tucked away in my checked baggage so no need to worry about where it is for my flight to  NY and it could be confiscated by airline personnel. How it ended up bag in my electronic gadget bag, I don’t know.

My trusty electronic gadget bag with my POCKET KNIFE was in my CARRY-ON!  I passed through two international airports security check points- Joburg, SA to JFk, NY,USA and then JFK to OAK, CA.

Please explain how  my pocket knife (with 14 features) went undetected.

Is the answer as simple as Transportation Security Adminastration (TSA) focusing all their attention to irrelevancy- liquids must be 3 oz or less all contained in a quart size ziploc and no water bottles.  I laugh under my breath every time I go through security. It’s the biggest joke- a  fear and intimidation show without much common sense. Do you feel safer?  I don’t. I think we’re more likely to have more problems because individuals may just want to show all our silly loop holes in the system!

Honestly, what could I possible have in my flip flops necessitating I take them off, place them in a plastic box, and put them through the x-ray machine? Or the padding down checks? Or the little rectangular cubicle that you stand in and blows  puffs of air at you for 5 seconds? I was told hesitantly by TSA, a few year back after experiencing this stupid thing, it’s to detect exposives on a person?

TSA proves there not doing their job properly or efficiently. If they cut the bullshit of trying to instill fear in everyone by their stiff and unfriendly demeanor, creating additional security gadgets, and enforcing no liquids etc, without any of us questioning for fear will be harrassed at length individually, their allowing our “safety” to be compromised. Or maybe that’s what they’ve been doing ever since “security” has become the focus.

I’m contemplating an email to TSA to just say, HA HA, Look what passed your X-ray machines not once BUT twice! Why don’t you get back to basic security and paying attention to pocket knives and other weapons rather than removal of shoes and water bottles. Then again, someone without any common sense will likely get the unintelligable idea to institute more regulations. RIght? Or maybe i’ll do it just for the sake of having the last laugh… or  an editorial to the newspaper?

WHAT DO YOU THINK? Leave a comment below, please!

I almost came home for Christmas 2007 and knew how cool it would be for my mom to come home one day and find me on the couch. Africa was treating me harshly and I wasn’t sure how or if I should put up with all the difficulty.  Since then,  I knew when I came home I would surprise them.  I would forgo having family greet me with flowers and open arms at the airport, though I’ll admit I would have loved all the attention and affection after being away for so long. I figured with all that I’ve been through and making life not about me, I could handle returning without my parents greeting me.

I owe a lot to my brother who was in on the surprise since the end of May, who was willing to cooperate, keep a secret and willing to be at the airport whenever my flight touched ground. Thanks, DUDE.

My parents went out of town the day I arrived, Thursday July 10 so I had a few days to adjust to being back home and organize (aka: make a bigger mess) my room. I thought coming home only to my brother might find me very emotional without my mom or step dad home but I managed. I knew in advance so I set my expectations to see them in 3 days.

My brother picked up my mom and step dad from the airport and I made sure I was chilling on the couch as if it were any other day- so normal for me to be there. My brother helped carry in their luggage so my mom could enter first but my step dad did. He started to make a sound and I silently put a finger to my lips and he stopped making a sound. My mom wondered what it was, expecting my cousin might be over.

The moment my mom caught a glimpse of me, she went into shock. She stopped walking, put her hands to her temples and repeated, “This is a dream, this is a dream.” I hesitated and then ran up to give her the biggest hug. Tears of happiness flowed. The best surprise I could ever give my mom.

The strangest thing is, it feels like I saw her yesterday. It feels like no time has passed and yet so many phone calls, emails and texts remind me I was gone for NINE freaking months! Plenty of times she helped me along the way when I felt alone, sad, disappointed, frustrated, uncertain as well as happy, alive, full of energy, inspired, always encouraging me in my travels, even though she desperately would have preferred me at home.

Why is time so weird?

I’m officially home.  This time I mean it. I’m no longer wandering the continent of Africa or enjoying my second home of SOUTH AFRICA. I’m in the East Bay of the SF Bay Area, CA. Amazing.

I was ready to come home though I know I’ll be missing Africa as I adjust. Leaving is always easier when you’re ready!  I know I’ll have my challenges at home but there does come a time on the travel road, when you reach BURN OUT. I did. So now it’s time to relax, enjoy and chill for a bit in the glorious Bay Area. Living in the Bay Area makes returning home so much easier, it’s beautiful here and the weather is always wonderful.

Before I left on this journey, I thought I might want a complete change and begin a new in NY but after my 10 day visit I realize I want the laid back life style of CA and I don’t want to deal with humidity and really cold winters, at least for now.

It’s been nice settling in, making an even bigger mess of my room as I sort all my clothes and travel gear. It’s amazing how rooms don’t get cleaner when you leave, they look just as you left them… no matter how long you’re gone, a shame! I’ve also been overwhelmed with how many clothes I have in my closet and dresser. I remember  comparing my wardrobe to friends and always thinking I’m not much of a shopper or willing to spend so much money on clothing to maintain an elaborate wardrobe but mine, somehow, is quite extensive. If you ever feel like you’re closet doesn’t have enough clothing, just travel minimally and out of a pack and it will do the trick. You’ll appreciate everything you own. I don’t even know where to begin when I get dressed in the morning or afternoon. I definitely missed having options and letting fashion be a creative outlet but going from 2 pants, 3 skirts and 6 shirts (after shopping in SA), I was unsure what to do. I just want jeans or a skirt and a t-shirt.

Simplicity, please!

So far so good with adjusting. Going from a modern, first world city  of Joburg where you have everything you could possibly imagine including lots of shopping malls and fashion designer shops and any cuisine you’d like, except for the good ole’ burrito I didn’t have such a shocking transition as it would have been if I came from Tanzania.

I’ve been feeling restless, overwhelmed and just wanting to chill out. A part of me still wants to be on the go while the other half just wants to be still, quiet, not move. Yet all around me, I’m reminded of things to do- update blog, upload photos, email people I’m home, call friends, spend time with family. I know everything will fall into place as it always done and a lot of the assignments I’ve given myself don’t have any deadlines so what’s the rush?

At the end of my journey in Africa I was tired of always meeting people and knowing I’d only see/hang out with them for a day or maybe a week. Even NY, it felt pointless to be meeting lots of cool people simply because I knew I wouldn’t be hanging out with them much. I still want to take it easy but now that I know I’ll be in the BAY for a while I’m eager to begin networking and socializing. I’m thankful for couchsurfing and the huge community that’s here. SF ROCKS! Coming back and having to start anew while living at home would be much more difficult without the wonderful couchsurfing community. How else do you meet like minded people or just people near my age now that I’m out of college and at the moment unemployed?  Exactly. I had trouble meeting people a year before I left- the trouble with suburbia and a job without co-workers!

Thank goodness for the internet!

A week before I left on my three week African overland trip through three new countries I realized I was really ready to just be home.For a long while, my mind was racing about whether I keep traveling, extend my visa by crossing a border or paying 425rand ($50) to SA home affairs to extend my visa and then find any ole job in Cape town, mostly likely restaurant or bar work. I felt ready to be settled and not in motion nor living out of my backpack after 9 months. The more time I spent wandering Cape town in winter with too many gloomy days, the more home beckoned.

So a few days before I left on my organized trip, I bought a one way ticket from Joburg, SA to JFK, New York. Thank goodness for STA travel as I managed to get a flight for $750 and online the best deal was around $1000 for the same flight. You get the deals until you’re 26, teacher or student so take advantage! It was a happy day despite the windy, gray day. I know I was ready to be home and having a ticket in my hand made my decision this much sweeter. Making decisions can be the most difficult but once I make up my mind, life becomes a breeze.

I flew to NY for as long or little time I wanted to spend there. I forsaw NYC would be overwhelming and intense but didn’t realize how happy I would be to just be on a plane home.  NYC is a place where you need a lot of energy and considering how worn out I was from traveling, it makes sense NY didn’t feel right. Home called louder. I was happy to see friends but also overwhelming. My friends have become quite involved and living the NY lifestyle of goin goin goin and dropping in on their lives felt like I was more of a hindrance at times. I wanted to go with their flow and not be in charge of much. After being in charge of everything for so long, I wanted a break. ONly to realize the  I wanted to give up planning and always figuring everything out but then I realized the importance of motion I realized I easily would have preferred more days of rest and relaxation. Sometimes you don’t know what you really need until you’re not doing it. sp We’ve lived very different lives these last 9.5 months and it took a bit of adjustment. Everything worked out in the end. A simple reminder to do what feels right and always follow what your intuition tells you.

Not complete!

So… I took a minibus taxi in Joburg and even changed taxi’s at the central joburg taxi rank! Depending on whom you talk to about joburg, you’re bound to get various opinions on the safety and how to navigate the city without a car. Joburg has quite the reputation for crime and it happens but I often wonder how much of this is spread out of fear than fact.

I stayed with Stephen, a cool couchsurfer born and raised in Joburg, who told me Joburg isn’t that bad. Refreshing to be around someone who wasn’t part of the hype of how bad Joburg is. Plenty of South Africans and travelers told me to avoid it but Iike it. To me, it’s like any big city and does it have it’s share of shopping malls. Reminded me a bit like SOuthern California but without your beach a few minutes away; try 3-4 hrs away and plenty of smog!

I spent my first day in Joburg at the Apartheid museum. Impressive. Overwhelming. Educational. Detailed. I spent 2.5 hrs roaming through but I could easily spend several days there to read every thing and try to grasp the depth of it. Apartheid: institutionalized racism  by the Afrikaan government was in place from 1945-1990

Not complete

I promised myself if I made it to Livingstone, Zambia I would raft the Zambezi river no matter how scared I was. I was petrified after talking with travelers earlier in my trip who shared their stories rafting this river.  A twenty something woman told me, “you will fall out of the raft. Sure, it’s scary.  It feels like it’s forever before you come up for air and then you have to wait to get pulled  back in the raft  but when the ride ends you’ll just want more.” Somehow, I couldn’t wrap my mind around th idea. Falling out of a raft into cold water in rapids doesn’t sound like fun to me.

So I signed up! It was slightly easier knowing Martin and Ingvild were rafting too. We got picked up at 7:30 am and I was signing a silly indemnity form by 8:15 am. It was lengthy but readable and was very unassuring when the company snuck a line in there, reading: “the company will not be held responsible even if it’s gross negligence due to staff or company.” Hmmm… No responsibility even if it’s ther fault. Great. Sounds good. But I guess that’s what fine print in the US probably says too.

We all ate breakfast of eggs, toast, sausage and beans and then listened to some safety tips, grabbed gear-helmets, life jackets and a rash guard- and then jumped into one of the five open land cruisers with bench seats. We were driven 15 minutes away with the wind blasting in our face. Occasionally I would duck down to avoid the rush of the wind and perk up to observe the villages and the people we were passing by. It’s a bit strange to go from a nice hotel (with camping) with a full bar, restaurant, lots of electricity to a village without access to electricity, woman fetch water  and fire wood a long walk away, cook over a fire, and their homes made of wood and thatch. How can both worlds live so closely? Do the people from the village feel annoyed by all the ”white” folks passing by in a nice vechicle to raft the zambezi?  What do they think?

I would later learn one of the raft guides was born and raised in this village and was sharing all his knowledge about it. Where the school is, the bell only elders can ring for a community meeting, building their homes etc. It brought new perspective as he benefitted from the rafting and yet was still proud of his culture and his village and happy to share.

We arrived at the destination and sat on broken down wooden bleachers to have a briefing on safety and what to do if you fall out of the raft. Step one: DON’T PANIC! The camera man took an awesome photo of me with my arms crossed, hair in a ponytail, looking on as if I’m untrusting, unsure of this whole rafting thing. The fun part began when we all had to trek down to the river a good five stories below with flip flops and my gear. The paddle was handy and good for stability.  I think climbing down would be the most difficult.

Finally made it and our group boarded the raft last as our guide, from Zimbabwe, who had 15 years experience on this river would have one of the safety rafts with 2 long oars strapped to the raft. I questioned the safety of it, if we capsized. He wasn’t concerned. All rafts did a quick rafting 101 dive course in forward and back  paddle and down- get inside the raft! All rafts but ours had everyone fall over board and then practice pulling everyone back in in a calm stretch of the river, of course!

I was nervous and happy for the calm stretches but that’s not why anyone goes rafting. Our guide would tell us each approaching rapid and it’s given name. The first few rapids I was secretly counting down, excited to have managed to stay in the raft and be fine, adrenaline pumping. It’s amazing how much you focus on paddling when your rafting through the rapids and then ducking into the raft as you hit the rapids. Like a game. I was happy to just be done with them while enjoying the

Our journey of 21 days sped by. I’m not sure where time disappeared to but something mysterious happens when your days are filled with driving and activities. My most interesting border crossing would be from Botswana to Zambia. We boarded a ferry carrying 8 vechicles per crossing and plenty of walk on passengers. A friend of Stephans who worked in Botswana needed to escape the Botswana immigration officials so he came to Zambia with us. Lucky for Stephan, his friend could drive the land cruiser onto the ferry and cross with us to start the tedious paper work of bringing a car into the country. the queue for driving the car on to the ferry seemed a mess. Plenty of people, called runners who try and get you to the front of the line or direct traffic with there whole plan to get some money for “helping you out.” An hour and half later he would finally cross, even though he was in front of the line for several ferry crossings. Order in an Africn sense, chaos by Western standards.

I was annoyed and disappointed the visa fee was $135 USD to enter Zambia. I was told this when I first booked my overland trip and then 2 weeks later told, Zamvia had changed the visas to $50. But I made sure I had enough dollars to pay the exorbitant fee. The immigration officially was patient and kind and told me it will last for 3 years so I can come back. I told him, “I won’t be coming back”, annoyed at the steep price to come into the country. It’s more frustrating knowing the visa fee used to be waived by a backpackers in Livingstone and by overland trucks but the law was changed at the end of Feb 2008. Apparently the steep price has to do with the high rate the US charges Zambians. Understood. I just wish that the high price I’m paying to be in the country for a short while would go to the people, to resources but I know it stays high within the government and officials bellies. You stay in Africa long enough and you see and smell the corruption. Then again, corruption is plenty in the USA, sometimes it just takes a while to bare it’s soul. All travelers I’ve met who’ve been to the States will tell me what a mission it is to enter. It’s a shame and ridicoulous. We make everyone feel like criminals to come and visit. How welcoming. Some how were meant to be safer. I don’t believe a word. I laugh everytime I go through security at the airport. Do you feel safer? I don’t. It’s a joke. It’s fear. THe more fearful the government can make us, the more control the government has.

We waited at the border crossing for an hour and half. Getting our visas was simple. Pay your money and get your stamp but bringing in a vechicle is another story. You need several differnet papers filled out and payment for this and that. Stephan wasn’t looking forward to this border crossing because it’s always a pain.

Finally, we boarded a huge overland truck serving as a transfer from the border to the Falls only 60km away. YOu could spot the falls several km away simple because of the mist that lingers in the air. The mist seems frozen in time, not moving.

We arrived at the falls to a huge curio market, charging inflated prices due to the massive amounts of tourists passing through. We paid our $10USD entrance per person and roamed around the falls. The sound of the falls is incredible and the mist in unbelieveable. At several of the viewpoints you could barely see the falls or blue sky because of all the water rushing past and the mist being created you couldn’t see the much. I made sure to bring a trusty ziploc bag for my camera and did I need it. I was also happy to have my rain jacket as some sections of the look outs, it’s as if it’s pouring rain!

Yet I can’t say that I was in awe. The falls are beautiful but with so much  mist I couldn’t really comprehend or appreciate the vastness of the falls. Later, when people would ask us about the falls, everyone said, “amazing,” “spectacular,” “impressive” yet I wasn’t sold. I just  kept my mouth shut. I had expecations of the falls… never a good idea.

We arrived to Sepupa, a village that meets the Okavango delta, where we boarded our aluminum “speed” boat with all our gear we would need for the next 2 days (food, stove, propane, sleeping gear, tents) and got cozy in our chairs. We were starved as it was 3pm so we made ourselves salami and cheese sandwiches while the boat was flying on the water. The scenery was beautiful, simple and tranquil. The moon was out. Long green reeds lined the river with ocassional papyrus sprouting amongst the reeds. Cold. It was nippy with the wind and speed of the boat glazing across the river. I put on my thermals(more like tights) but was still cold. Sun setting as we arrived at the dock two hours later. There was a truck waiting us, with benches the length of the truck placed in the middle. I was impressed with their timing, certainly not on African time, and their quickness to unload the boat and load everything in to the truck to take us to our camp 10 minutes away. To our surprise, they set up camp for us using their own tents and provided nice foldable chairs for us with arm rests (like the ones so popular in the USA for camping, kids sports games etc). I could get used to camp being set up upon arrival. Stephan cooked us Spagetti bolonaise and we all enjoyed the warmth of the fire.

Two hungry dogs got cozy around the fire and were thankful to our leftovers. Stephan feed them pasta and the following morning let them have our meat sauce. Poor dogs. As Martin would later say, Third world dogs all look the same: hungry and inbreed. Dogs in Africa are used as guard dogs and often not as part of the family as we see them in the States. I’ve seen them beaten and once while in the Transkei in South Africa was growled at and almost bitten when I gave the dog afection. The dog wasn’t used to any postive attention. Shame. We awoke early to the tap on our tents by good ole’ reliable Stephan to give us the wake up call. Enjoyed a quick breakfast of muesli (granola) and yougurt, washed dishes and then loaded all our gear on to the truck whom arrived promptly at 8am. Ten minutes drive and we were loading the mekoros (dug out canoes) with all our gear. We’d have three mekoros- one for gear, and two to accomdate two per mokoro. A scenic ride through the Delta full of lily pads and the occasional lily flower. Sometimes I could see the bottom and the tangle of the lily pad vines. Each poler balanced perfectly on the back of the thin fiber glass canoe gliding us through the vivid blue water. I imagined we’d have to carefully naviagate around the lushioius reeds but the polers just pushed right through them. In some areas, the bugs were beyond abundant- buzzing and landing everywhere. Often, there was the spider or tiny frog enjoying free passage. Good thing bugs don’t faze me. Upon arrival 3 hrs later, we set up camp and enjoyed lunch.

I enjoyed a relaxing day in the bush without any facilities and no way to get back to “civilazation” without riding in the mokoro. Martin, Ingvild and I went for a short swim in the Delta 5 minutes away by mokoro from our camp. A bit exhilaring knowing hippos and crocodiles live in these waters. I can say, I’ve swum in the Okanvango Delta. An hour later, we took a ride in the mokoro to see the hippos. I had a mokoro to myself since Stephan stayed back at camp to prepare us dinner- a traditional South African stew, potjie. YUM. I was apprehensive to see hippos knowing they kill more humans than any other wild animal in Africa. A scary prospect.

THe polers, of course, know what they’re doing. They’re cautious of the hippos and respect them. We  watched the hippos from the rim of the swamy area they were swimming and lounging in. Occassionally, we’d see nostrils come poke out of the water and plenty of grunting. We stayed for a good 40 minutes and then returned as the sun was setting. Beautifully stunning. I laid back in the mokoro capturing the moment. Trying to fully embrace the moment, where I was, stopping time as best as I could without silly thoughts flooding the brain. Birds sung, hippos grunted, reeds crinkled, water rippled, sky illuminated, a breeze blew past.

Back at camp, Potjie was almost ready. A rewarding and relaxing day.

As we ate our meal, the polers maintained the fire to cook their meat and pap (maize meal, looks like mashed potatos but stiff, common in most of Africa just different names). In fact, we had a fire going from morning till night not because it was cold but simply so the polers could cook their meals. Collect firewood and have some matches… and you’ve got a fire to cook.

They spoke in Setswana, the national language of Botswana. I felt seperated for just a moment hearing them chat and laught amongst themsleves in their own language while the four of us shared stories and a laugh. Two worlds connected and yet disconnected. Strange. I enjoyed hearing them speak.. imagining what they may be saying to each other, watching the dyanamics between the lead poler- an older gentleman, a middleaged man and an older woman. The woman was always the last to have her meal dished up. Eventhough I know most cultures in Africa are distinctly partiarchial, I’m still surprised at the inequality and the demand on woman and girls to do the often rigouous tasks required of them. (Demanding tasks: collecting firewood, collecting water and carrying on their head to their village, cooking, cleaning, taking care of the children etc.).

The following morning we awoke early (7am) for breakfast and a 2 hr stroll in the bush in hopes of seeing some wildlife. We managed to see a few zebras, a warthog and  the typial springbok but I’d be surprised to see much else with all the noise we made walking quietly through the dry grass. I was happy to have the exercise yet I would have gladly taken extra sleep. Bush walks usually sound cooler than they are.

Got back to camp and packed everything up, loaded it all onto the mekoros and glided peacefully back to the area where we originally set off from. This time our polers took a shortcut and boy were their plenty of bugs amongst the reeds. The elder woman was having back issues. The lead poler, Calvin, asked for pain killers for her (she didn’t speak much English) and Stephen gave her some. I asked Calvin if her mokoro was the heaviest since she wasn’t carrying passsengers just most of our gear. He said, “yes.” You’d think the one suffering with back pain could have the chance to push the lightest mokoro but my question in their eyes was deserving of only a matter of fact answer. Alright. Ok.  DId Calvin even see the purpose in my asking if hers was heaviest? Doubtful. Simply an example of the role of woman and their place in African society.

Calvin was then to take us on a “village walk” but it was simply an uninformative walk. Because of the initial problems with the car, Bundu decided to put us up in a houseboat for one night on the river. I was ready to be on the houseboat… Enough of this fake let’s roam through the village stuff.

The houseboat felt like luxury.  I plopped myself in a chair, closed my eyes and enjoyed the warmth of the sun. I could get used to this life style or add an extra day or two. Our two hosts, Sam and SIlence cooked a deliicious dinner of chicken, mushroom sauce, vegetables and rice. I had a double bed to myself with my own bathroom with a view. WOW.

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